• mobilitylab.org site logo
  • Mobility Lab main menu search icon:  click to do a search
    • Understanding Transportation Demand Management
    • Transportation Demand Management In Action
      • Arlington Transportation Partners
        • The Practice of Transportation Demand Management
      • Information and Outreach
        • Commuter Services
        • Messaging
        • Champions Program
      • Learn more about TDM
        • Further Reading
    • Our Research
      • Travel Behaviors
        • Transit
        • Bike
        • Walk
        • Ridesharing
        • Micromobility
      • Arlington Analysis
        • Regional Surveys
        • Evaluations
        • Building Studies
      • Market Profiles
        • All Profiles
    • Transit Oriented Communities
    • Urban Planning
    • Resources
      • The Transportation Cost-Savings Calculators
        • ROI Calculator
        • TRIMMS 4.0
      • Research Data
        • Transit APIs
        • Archived Articles
      • Video Library
      • Infographics
      • Glossary Of Key Terms
    • About Us
      • Meet Our Team
      • Careers

Urban Planning

  • Home
  • Urban planning

Suburbanites Seek Status Behind “Velvet Rope,” Argues Transit Activist Ross

September 4, 2014

Velvet RopeWhy do so many Americans choose to live in the suburbs, despite the increasingly long commute times and lack of community often associated with these places?

Benjamin Ross, a Washington D.C.-based transit activist whose grass-roots lobbying efforts led to the planned Purple Line in Maryland, argues that suburbia has a persistent allure because it is a great “velvet rope” separating those of means from the rest of us.

Status-seeking, Ross says, is the psychological underpinning of suburbanization, leading Americans to seek out the cachet purported by suburbia’s bigger houses, bigger lots, and bigger SUVs. Ross makes a convincing argument to this effect in his new, meticulously-researched book, Dead End: Suburban Sprawl and the Rebirth of American Urbanism.

Regarding status-seeking, Ross writes:

“Suburban construction is not the only sector of the economy where status sells. Nightclubs, like neighborhoods, thrive on exclusivity, and both employ gatekeepers to maintain the desired aura. These functionaries – bouncers, doormen, and planners – bring diverse credentials to their work, but they all have the same task. Their job is to keep the riffraff out while carefully trading off revenue against cachet. The balding hedge fund manager with the taste for champagne gets seated in the VIP section for the same reason the office building is allowed to go up along the interstate.”

The problem, of course, is that housing and jobs, unlike nightclubs, ought not be reserved only for those with clout. Yet Ross demonstrates how status-seeking is built into the DNA of suburbia, through the zoning codes and private covenants that enable them.

Dead End details how the legal foundation for modern zoning ordinances lies in a 1927 Supreme Court case, Euclid v. Ambler. In this case, the view of apartment buildings as “lower class” was upheld by the court, which described apartments as a “mere parasite” on the single-family neighborhood. Coupled with private covenants (primarily homeowners associations), which historically did not just impose architectural standards but racial and ethnic restrictions as well, the result is an entire system based on exclusion and favoring single-family housing over all others.

Author and Transit Activist Ben RossDespite this dubious history, many Americans moved to the suburbs with the best of intentions, seeking safety and security for their families. The suburban oasis has proven to be a mirage, though, says Ross. For example, in present-day suburbia, children do not play throughout the neighborhood. Instead, play dates must be arranged in advance by “helicopter parents.” Walking or biking to school is anathema. The desire for safety has warped into a reality of isolation and disconnectedness.

The biggest problem with suburbanization, though, may be the unintended consequence of a segregated, dispersed land-use pattern – better known as sprawl.

Sprawl, the process of separating land uses – houses from offices from shopping – has resulted in a suburban landscape in which even the simplest errand requires a car. It’s no wonder, Ross argues, that Americans have fallen out of love with sprawl, if not with the suburbs themselves.

Dead End book coverRoss’s book covers a great deal of ground. There is clearly no love lost between Ross and the suburban land form he deconstructs. He takes on opponents of smart growth as well, recognizing that behind most of their arguments lurks the culturally-biased premise that “the single-family suburb embodies true Americanism, under attack by an alien cultural elite.”

At its core though, Dead End is optimistic. Ross points out that demand for walkable, transit-accessible housing far outweighs the supply. In regions that have strong transit networks – New York, Washington D.C., San Francisco, and Los Angeles, among them – the central cities are gaining in population faster than the suburbs.

This is good news for smart-growth advocates, but the supply-demand discrepancy remains an issue. Ross says that in order to address the supply side of the equation, we need:

  • additional construction and density in existing walkable, transit-accessible areas, and
  • extended transit to create new places that fit this criteria.

Dead End has received praise from publications such as the Washington Post, which noted that the book “casts light on the cultural forces at play in major disputes gripping our region over affordable housing, the ‘war on cars,’ the Columbia Pike streetcar in Arlington.” If the suburbs really are an exclusive, velvet rope-demarcated pattern of development, then like at any party, it’s important to recognize when it is coming to an end. Many Americans are doing just that.

Ross will speak at Mobility Lab on September 24 as part of our ongoing Lunch At the Lab speaker series.

Velvet rope photo by Ahmed Hashim. Ben Ross photo by Bossi.

 
share this item

Subscribe to Receive Updates on the Latest Mobility Research and Trends

Arlington Virginia Department of Environmental Services

Transportation Resources for Arlington County (TRAC) is funded in part by grants from the U.S. Department of Transportation (DOT), the Virginia Department of Transportation (VDOT) and the Virginia Department of Rail and Public Transportation (DRPT)

TRAC Family of Sites
  • Arlington Transit
  • Arlington Transportation Partners
  • Bike Arlington
  • Capital Bikeshare
  • Car-Free Near Me
  • CommuterDirect
  • CommuterPage
  • Dieta Cero-Auto
  • The Commuter Store
  • Walk Arlington
  • Terms and Conditions
Follow Us
  • facebook
  • twitter
  • linkedin
  • youtube
  • instagram

© 2026 Mobility Lab, a program of Arlington County, Virginia

Accessibility Adjustments

Accessibility Commitment for Mobility Lab

At Mobility Lab, we are committed to making our digital presence as accessible and inclusive as reasonably possible for all users, including individuals with disabilities. Our goal is to improve the usability of https://mobilitylab.org and to support a more accessible experience for everyone, regardless of their abilities or the technologies they use.

Our Approach to Accessibility

We aim to align with the Web Content Accessibility Guidelines (WCAG), which define internationally recognized standards for digital accessibility. While full compliance cannot always be guaranteed, we strive to implement improvements where feasible and regularly review accessibility-related aspects of our website. Accessibility is an ongoing process, and we are committed to improving the experience over time as technologies, standards, and user needs evolve.

Accessibility Features

To support accessibility, https://mobilitylab.org may utilize tools/plugins as the accessibility toolbar. This interface provides users with a range of helpful features, including:
  • Adjustable text size and contrast settings
  • Highlighting of links and text for better visibility
  • Full keyboard navigation of the toolbar interface
  • Quick launch via keyboard shortcut: Alt + . (Windows) or ⌘ + . (Mac)
Please note the following:
  • The availability and effectiveness of these features depend on the website's configuration and ongoing maintenance.
  • While we strive to ensure accessibility, we cannot guarantee that every part of https://mobilitylab.org will be fully accessible at all times. Some content may be provided by third parties or affected by technical constraints beyond our immediate control.

Feedback and Contact

We welcome your feedback. If you experience any accessibility barriers or have suggestions for improvement, please contact us: Email: info@mobilitylab.org We are committed to reviewing all inquiries and aim to respond within 3–5 business days. If you require assistance accessing any part of this website, we are happy to provide support through alternative channels upon request. Last updated: February 19, 2026
How long do you want to hide the toolbar?
Hide Toolbar Duration
Select your accessibility profile
Vision Impaired Mode
Enhances website's visuals
Seizure Safe Profile
Clear flashes & reduces color
ADHD Friendly Mode
Focused browsing, distraction-free
Blindness Mode
Reduces distractions, improves focus
Epilepsy Safe Mode
Dims colors and stops blinking
Content Modules
Font Size

Default

Line Height

Default

Color Modules
Orientation Modules